Mutual Restraint of the Gods of Happiness in the Eight Characteristics (What to do if the Gods of Happiness and Utility of a man and a woman are opposite to each other)

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According to the traditional concept of the Old Yellow Calendar, the eight characters (i.e., the combination of the heavenly stems and earthly branches of the year, month, day, and hour) of each person at the time of birth affects his or her destiny throughout his or her life. Among them, the God of Happiness plays an important role in the eight characters. Xishen refers to the gods and goddesses that match the Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches of one's Bazi, and represents the things in life that one likes, suits, and can utilize one's talents. However, there is an interesting phenomenon embedded in this, that is, there is a relationship of mutual restraint between the Xishen of the eight characters.

Let's look at some typical examples of mutual restraints between the Eight Gods of Happiness. For example, for a person born on the A day, his/her Pleasing Deity is the Wood Deity, which represents interest and talent in wood, plants, nature, and so on. However, if Ding Fire is present in the Eight Characteristics of A Day, then this combination creates a restraining relationship, as Ding Fire is overriding Wood, which will prevent the A Day person from utilizing his or her Hi-God talents. Similarly, the Pleasure God of B-Day is the God of Gold, and if Geng Jin appears in the B-Day's eight-character chart, the God of Gold will be restrained and it will be difficult for the person to get good use of his/her talents.

Why is there such a restraint? This involves the ancient philosophical concepts of "yin and yang" and "five elements" theory. Yin and Yang is the description of the two relative properties of the universe, Yin and Yang are rooted in each other, and constrain each other. The Five Elements are the categorization and description of material changes, including the five attributes of wood, fire, earth, gold and water. The law of wood over fire, fire over gold, and gold over wood can be seen in the mutual restraints of the Eight Happiness Gods, which are extensions of the restraints in the Five Elements.

The mutual restraint of the Eight Happiness Deities actually emphasizes the principle of balance and reconciliation. The ancients believed that for a person to be successful and happy, he must be moderate in his attitude and balanced in his actions. If a person pursues something excessively and neglects other things, it will easily lead to excessive bias and the loss will outweigh the gain.

At this point, we would like to point out that, in the mutual restraint of the eight gods, it does not mean that the gods must be bad once they are restrained, but we need to make wise trade-offs and adjustments in real life. For example, if a person born on the A day encounters Ding Fire, although it will be constrained to a certain extent, there are other ways to utilize one's talents, such as cultivating other hobbies or learning other skills to realize one's own value. In the face of mutual restraint of the eight happy gods, moderate adjustment of their attitudes and directions can not only bring about brand new opportunities, but also fully explore their own potential.

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八字喜神相互克制, this traditional concept is reflected in the old calendar, highlighting the importance of life balance and reconciliation. In reality, we don't need to be too attached to the confinement of destiny, but rather need to be open-minded to accept the mutual restraint of the Eight Happiness Gods, so as to realize our own value and growth. Only in this way can we find the right direction for ourselves and pursue happiness and success in the complicated path of life.

2, both men and women like to use the god of mutual restraint how to do

What to do if the two sexes have conflicting preferences and uses

In traditional culture, there is an important concept called the "favorite". The "Favorite God" refers to the God that a person prefers in different years or fortunes, that is, the God that is compatible with his or her own fortune. Compatibility, on the other hand, refers to the relationship between two things that contradict or restrain each other. When a man and a woman's Favorite Deities are mutually exclusive, some people are concerned that this may adversely affect their relationship or marriage. So what should we do when a man and a woman's favorite gods are in opposition to each other?

It is important to be clear that the relationship between the preferences and compatibility in the Old Yellow Calendar is based on the theories of traditional fortune-telling techniques. Although there are many people who believe in them, modern science cannot determine their accuracy. Therefore, we don't need to worry too much, and more importantly, we shouldn't dismiss a relationship because of some of the claims.

When a man and a woman's preferred gods are incompatible, we should treat it with a rational attitude. We can better understand his or her character traits and strengths and weaknesses by delving into the other person's eight-character numerology. Although numerology cannot predict, it can help us understand ourselves and each other better so that we can get along better.

It's been said that "it's easy to love each other but hard to get along with each other", and couples or partners who really get along for a long time are often not exactly similar in personality. Instead, complementarity and mutual respect are the keys to a stable relationship. If we can correctly understand each other's Hi-Use God Compatibility, we will be able to better deal with each other's differences.

When a man and a woman's preferred gods are opposite each other, we need to focus more on communication and understanding. Communication is one of the good ways to solve problems and resolve conflicts. When we find that there are some bad compatibility relationships, we should openly communicate with each other and explore how this relationship affects us. By working together, we can find appropriate ways to deal with these problems.

At the same time, we can also use some methods in traditional culture to dissolve the negative effects of the conjunction of the Himalayan Deity. For example, we can choose some activities or places that are suitable for the Himalayan Deity as a dating choice to enhance the relationship and relieve the pressure of the incompatibility. At the same time, we can also pray for the blessing and protection of the gods by participating in some traditional rituals.

Understanding the relationship between oneself and the other person's Hierophant doesn't mean that we have to give up on the relationship. In a society where we are no longer completely at the mercy of fate, we have the power to choose, change and create our own happiness. As long as we love each other sincerely, establish good communication and trust, and believe in ourselves and each other's efforts, we have the ability to overcome all difficulties.

To summarize, when a man and a woman's preferred gods are incompatible, we should treat it with rationality and precision, and not be too trusting of the claims. We should try to neutralize the negative effects by understanding the causes and effects of the conjunction, enhancing communication and understanding, as well as seeking some methods in traditional culture. It is important that we believe in ourselves and each other's efforts to actively manage and maintain the relationship and realize true happiness.