Can we resolve the incompatibility between husband and wife?

The compatibility of a couple's Bazi is an important topic for many people, as marriage is a crucial part of life. It is said that through the eight characters, one can see the similarities and differences between couples, thus predicting the harmony or otherwise of the marriage. However, have you heard what to do if the couple's eight characters don't match, and is there a way to resolve the situation?

We need to understand what the eight characters are. The Eight Characters is a set of eight characters based on the four elements of the year, month, day and hour of birth, also known as the "Four Pillars Eight Characters". Through the theory of yin and yang and five elements, we can analyze the eight characters of each person's destiny plate, and understand the individual's personality, destiny trend and so on. Of course, this thing is not just a folk, but also has a certain scientific basis, after all, is in the history of thousands of years began to form.

According to traditional culture, the conjunction or disagreement of the eight characters between husband and wife can affect the happiness and harmony of marriage. If two people's eight characters complement and harmonize with each other, then their marriage is likely to be very happy. However, if the eight characters are in conflict with each other and are in conflict, then the couple may be in conflict with each other and contradict each other. Of course, this does not mean that incompatible couples are doomed to separate, because people's destiny can be changed, and we can resolve the incompatibility of the couple's eight characters through some methods.

The Old Yellow Calendar provides some healthy and family harmony methods that can be used to dissolve the incompatibility of the couple's eight characters. For example, you can choose the right hour and day to get married according to your own eight characters or the couple's conjugal eight characters. Roughly speaking, if two people's eight characters are compatible, then the auspicious day they choose is more likely to bring about a happy and harmonious marriage. Of course, choosing an auspicious day does not guarantee a happy marriage, but at least psychologically it can give more confidence.

In addition, the old calendar also provides some ways to worship gods and Buddhas and ask for divination. If couples find that the eight characters do not match, they can choose to pray and make sacrifices at the right time to eliminate the disharmony. For example, you can go to the temple to burn incense, worship Buddha, worship God sacrifice, or ask an experienced teacher to tell the couple's fortune and give reasonable advice.

In addition, communication between husband and wife is also the key to resolving the incompatibility of the eight characters. Regardless of whether the eight characters are suitable or not, as long as both parties understand each other and are good at communication, the marriage is likely to be happy and harmonious. We can improve the relationship between husband and wife by improving our emotional intelligence and communication skills. When encountering conflicts and problems, we should know how to tolerate and understand, respect each other's point of view, and solve problems together.

Don't neglect your personal efforts and struggles. Although fate sometimes has a certain impact on people, we can not completely rely on our happiness on the eight characters. We should have our own goals and values to pursue, and change our lives through unremitting efforts and struggles. Only when the individual becomes better, the marriage can be more beautiful and happy.

All in all, the fact that a couple's eight characters are not merged does not mean that the marriage will be unhappy, and there are some ways we can solve the problem and improve the couple's relationship. Whether it is through the use of the old calendar, or through their own efforts and communication, the ultimate goal is to make the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious and happy. As long as the husband and wife have love, mutual tolerance and understanding, I believe they will be able to spend a happy and fulfilling marriage time together.