Cancer is actually very strong

Emotions are Cancer's downfall, and one of the greater ones. Though he often helps others, and often gives them emotional relief, his own emotions show a huge systemic flaw. Cancer can give others the sense of belonging they want, but others cannot give them the sense of belonging they want. In the long run, Cancer is not prone to second-guessing others, but rather to second-guessing himself. He feels that he is not good enough, is not worthy of their own to get the love of others, was not too confident he will be more confident. Once Cancer is in a situation of low self-confidence, contact with the outside world will be more scarce. His thoughts will always be to the direction of the development trend is not good down.

Other people asked him to play, at first he will feel overwhelmed, and then carefully think about it and feel that other people have no choice but to ask him to come out, and not really want to play with him, the final result is that the Cancer firmly refused. He is afraid of public standoff with others, also afraid to imagine their own guess if it is true how to do, so he misses others, but also miss a better self. In fact, in many cases the problem lies with Cancer, who is right and good in his desire to protect himself, but who is overly coy in his approach to this kind of precautionary awareness. It's not as if he were taking precautions, it's as if he had found a cage to lock himself in. He does not want to believe in others, and in addition does not want to believe in himself.

If Cancer can get past his inner self, he will realize how big the world is and how different he thought it was. If he wants to be positive for once, he can have friends. Even if his chance to be positive is not right, he will not easily lose anything. If there was someone who wanted to be nice to him for no reason at all, who wanted to get out of his prison and show him how big the world was, then he would indeed fall in love with that person decisively. No matter how many worlds separate that person from him, no matter with what purpose that person is close to him in the beginning, he can not care, because he just must be a person to save him. The other person is good to Cancer one point, Cancer will return twenty points.

Other people to Cancer ruthless ten, Cancer will return eight points. Cancer hates to cut off other people's retreat, but also hates to do all the things too no one. Cancer really insecure, also really locked himself in a closed space, but this does not mean that he is a weak chicken. Cancer does not want to pick fault, more hate to ask for trouble. But if it's someone else who picks a fight with him first, then you can't blame Cancer for being sinister and vicious. Talking about emotion Cancer is likely to be insufficient to be good at, good talk about other Cancer is hard to meet the enemy. Cancer does not use other people's charity, he expects some people to love him, but do not expect some people to pity him. Pity this kind of goods in the view of Cancer is not only worthless, but also full of ridicule.